Hello, I’m Dilan. I’m a spanking enthusiast, mostly known for my peachy bum pictures on Twitter @OhdearDilan. I’m pretty kinky and like to explore quite taboo and humiliating role play as a professional bottom, mostly as an adult-school-girl. I have also recently started switching and enjoy dishing out the discipline too either as a school bully, mistress, hotwife or my new alter ego Miss Honeysuckle. My good girl white cotton knickers are rather popular too.
How long have you been in the industry? How and why did you decide to get into it?
My first paid experience was in September 2019 and it was for a private customer, a high budget 1950s spanking film, organized by Goddess Soria, which was great fun. At the time I had a vanilla job and so wasn’t comfortable showing my face and I mainly said yes because she is an incredible top and very attractive, at the time I didn’t think it through much more than that! But after leaving it to do some solo traveling, I returned and decided I just did not want to go back to dull office work. So I started taking my options as a pro-sub professionally a bit more seriously, did some sessions, and then began making amateur clips and showing my face at the start of 2020, which opened some doors for professional shoots. Miss Matthews was fab for advice and really took me under her wing!
Have you ever had second thoughts about this business?
Honestly, yes. There is sadly definitely still stigma involved, and I’ve faced some judgment from people that I thought were more open-minded than they are, which was difficult. But I get it, and I think as a feisty teenager I even used to hold some harmful misconceptions about sex workers and models in the adult industry. I’m glad to see attitudes changing and I want to see more legalized. In some ways, I wish I’d got into this professionally a lot sooner when I was peachier! But I’m also aware there are still abuses of power, so it is worth really thinking about your personal boundaries and what you’re getting into, you do have to take a lot of personal responsibility and have some resilience.
All that said, I have absolutely no regrets about getting into this. Whilst I initially fell into it, showing my face was a very considered choice and it really is mostly great fun. I would like to be a role model to others considering this line of work too. I have strong boundaries and I only say yes to what I’m comfortable with. I don’t always ‘have a price, I’d rather eat super noodles than agree to something I’m not fully on board with. Yes, I do this because I need to make money somehow, but I chose this line of work because I really do love spanking! I’m incredibly lucky to now have supportive people around me who just want me to be happy – which I really wasn’t when I was suppressing my kinky side and spiritlessly trying to survive the rat race.
What is the best part of your work? What do you love the most about it?
Without a doubt, the incredible kinky people I get to connect with. I love meeting new kinky folk and I have worked with some wonderful women. I also just love making the fantasies of clients come to life. On top of that, the freedom to choose my own schedule and the occasional perks of champagne, gifts, and swanky venues don’t go unappreciated!
What has been one of the best or funniest moments in your work?
The best thing is when I actually let go and get turned on, and I have a little pinch-me moment thinking ‘I can’t believe I’m getting paid for this. But even if I’m not turned on, I always try to have fun on set and I’m guilty of some giggling, when things are scripted it’s sometimes hard to keep a straight face. I am starting to get better and actually act, I love it when I can really get into the headspace. I remember being genuinely humiliated shooting with Miss Iceni for a rectal thermometer temperature taking custom. They wanted a good few minutes of it left in my bottom at the end of the clip, so she’s fully dressed and walking around filming me naked me lying on a bed, and once she’d captured it starts talking about how lovely it looks and showing me the footage … and I just am still very aware that’s it’s inside and so reaches behind to pull it out and she’s like “Oh I almost forgot about that” haha. Also, having to hand back her navy knickers after a school scene was also very cringing – I think when she put them in the wash she will have realized just how much I was enjoying the role play!
But oh dear, the funniest/worst thing that springs to mind is when I had a mini custom request for some cute school-themed photos in the first lockdown which I ordered a new dress for. I don’t usually use eBay, and it was accidentally delivered to my Dad’s address. The packaging was not discreet at all. He sent me a picture saying ‘this arrived for you with a confused face, and it said on the outside ‘Schoolwear: girls gingham checked green summer school dressage 16 ‘ … I was mortified and said it was for a fancy dress Zoom party. I’m really not convinced he bought that but he did post it to me and it luckily didn’t come up again. Not all humiliation is a turn-on!
The biggest topic on everyone’s mind nowadays is the coronavirus and social distancing. What have you been doing during this time to stay upbeat?
Oh, I’m so fed up with it now, bring on the vaccines, I plan to spank a lot of needy bottoms when I’m allowed to run free. A little personal goal of mine is to do something mindful each day – meditating or masturbating is a good way to stay upbeat I think! But sometimes it’s as small as painting my nails. My generous friends and kinky pals on Twitter also keep me smiling.
Have you done something you’ve been wanting to do but never had the time?
Well, it’s still a work in progress but I have eventually got round to uploading more clips online, I had a very busy spell and was just too exhausted to get everything done at the time. I have lots of past footage and funny bits I’m still yet to share so I’m preparing to launch an Onlyfans too, for anyone really into the adult-school aesthetic or wants to get to know the real me and have a laugh at all my playful antics and fooling about behind the scenes!
I’ve also created a little office space at home and I’ve enjoyed some virtual sessions, including some toppy role play with adult babies, something which is new to me but I love it. I’m starting to improve my own filming and editing skills too, as well as brainstorming ideas of where I’d like to go with producing my own future content. I’ve happily used the time to connect virtually with some more Scottish kinksters too, which is exciting! I hope for more collaborations and fancy filming opportunities head.
What is the plan for the future? What next?
Eventually caved & decided I’m ready to reveal behind the scenes with an Onlyfans! So that’s new and exciting for anyone who wants a taste of the real me! Join me there for daily updates, first previews of new content, exclusive stuff as well as some silliness.
You can expect to see more of me as a top too, considering a separate AVN platform for that down the line. I have some great classic clips on the way as Miss Honeysuckle, alongside the stunning Mistress Scarlet spanking naughty bottoms Bella, Mila, Naomi, and Eden yet to be released. As well as starring in it, I was a producer of this latest school film and had a lot of the scenes responsibility. It is currently in the hands of the talented filmmaker Kima Zake, aka @Kick_prod on Twitter. I think I’m as excited as the client, I can’t wait to see the final film and share what I can with you all. Once this pandemic is further behind us, I also look forward to doing more in-person sessions, still subbing/switching alongside pro-dommes but I also plan to unleash my sweet but sadistic alter ego Miss Honeysuckle or strict mistress Dilan for 121 discipline meetups. I also need to get on purple port apparently that’s where all the good photographers are! First on the list however is updating my sites and blog, so stay tuned for more coming soon at ohdeardilan.com.
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