I’m a very open person when it comes to my sexuality, I feel like sex and owning your “sexy-ness” is a form of empowerment, YOU give YOUR own sexual experience and nobody can replace or copy what you do, and everyone is different and amazing in different ways. I like to push boundaries in sex, I like to know what makes the other person tick and I want them to know what makes me tick as well. I like to find out how far we can go and how intensely hot we can make it. For me it’s as much of a mind thing as it is a sexual feeling, I like to feel like my mind is out of reality.
Why I Love Rough Sex
I like to feel out of control, not in a scary way and not ever in any way that I feel unsafe, but I really do enjoy it when I have no control. I like to have control in every aspect of my life, in fact, I almost need control in my life, but then as soon as the bedroom door closes…. I want to be completely taken control of.
Rough sex is fun and exciting to me, it’s almost like a drug. Once you experience something so intense, nothing else compares.
Types Of Rough Sex
I like to be pushed to my very limit. I stay safe and only engage in rough sex like that with my significant other but there have been times where I almost passed out because of the roughness, but I like that feeling. I love to be spanked, having my hair pulled while the other hand is around my neck. That type of thing. Anything that makes me feel like I’m not in control. I always have a safe word though!!|
Fun fact!! : My safe word is Watermelon!
Oh there is plenty, “She must have daddy issues”, “She must have been sexually abused before”, “I wonder if her boyfriend beats her too” … None of that is true! I mean that stuff happens to people no matter what you’re into sexually. For me, it’s just one big mental and physical fantasy of losing all control.
Do’s And Don’ts For Rough Sex
Don’t ever let yourself in bed with someone you don’t trust and feel safe with. Rough sex can sometimes get a little carried away so you need to be with someone who can see when you need a break. Do share your dark secrets beforehand, tell your partner the dirty and rough things you’ve always wanted to do, and then let them do it to you. Don’t force yourself or push your body if you feel like something is wrong, always listen to your body. Do let yourself fully lose control at some point and let the other person just sexually take you, I promise you will both love it. After having that rough connection with someone you crave it.